Nic,

These are the emotional oscillations I was refering to. It tests your resolve continually. One day you are fantastic, the next, we are reminded of the selfishness and the lack of consequence or seeming lack of consequence to our former spouses.

You've found a path to happiness within you, keep following that path to get over the rough spots. They will happen, just another part of the program.

The good part of this is, as a DBer, you have all of the necessary tools at your disposal to focus on you and keep moving forward.

Steve