Hi Mat,

I've been reading a little regarding quotes that fit my sitch and my W's behavior. She's always complained that I didn't pay attention to her and made her feel insignificant/inferior. I didn't, in fact, her brothers both told me that she treated me like sh$t and they wouldn't put up with her if they were married to her.

What I say to that is a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt" No one can make you feel inferior without your consent". PMA, GAL and act as if all explain this. No matter what my wife does, I have control of my Attitude. She can't make me feel a certain way unless I let her. Even though I know she's w/ OM, she doesn't control my PMA.

Keep strong, the aliens that took our Spouses may one day return them. I am not waiting for that day, I am seeking legal action and interviewing attnies. I don't want to let her decide my fate.


ME: 39 ring on
wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC
son:17,11
dtr:9
mar:17yr
Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old.
DBing 5-19-07
My story on the link below.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470