Let her go for now (you have lost this battle), and by doing this, you will get her back (win the war).
The determination and conviction is your PMA and working on yourself and believing that you will eventually win the war.
How freaky is that.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."