Ahhh Nicola ~ It is rough. Most importantly I am glad your s5 is ok. As for your h you hit the nail on the head with how selfish he is. Try not to give him another thought. He doesn't deserve it. Concentrate on you and what a wonderful Mommy you are!

Much love

Christy
M: 31
H: 33
Married ~ 13 years
S12
S8
Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A
2nd bomb 12/30/05
Separated 01/06
I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955