Swashy said, "I know you want to "fix" this. I know that you want to figure it out and do everything you can to make this work. Unfortunately in this crazy backwards dbing world...the thing that is going to give you the best chance of fixing this...is to just leave it alone and focus on fixing YOU." I do agree with statement.......and need to continue working on that effort.
Doing this makes this....
Originally Posted By: NoDontDoThis
One of the hard things for me is sometimes I vacillate so much. I want this fixed now....or ended now. I need to be more patient. It is hard though, because this journey is so lonely at times. I did consider my wife to also be my best friend, and I do miss that part so much too. Just having someone to have a conversation with.
a lot easier.
What I mean is...taking the focus off of her and your R and putting it on you and your life and how you want to grow, etc....will help to flatten out this crazy roller coaster you are on and will help give you greater patience.
It is so easy to say and SOOOO hard to do...but it is the way. It'll come with time buddy. Hope you had a good night at work.
