W's bday. She spent all day running around with the OM. (D12 called and "told" on her). I wasn't allowed to see her because she "simply didn't have time."

Now it's bad enough that I missed Father's Day with my kids.

But now they are all out right now(Including in-laws) to dinner. D even called me to ask what was it that I ordered last time I was there (we shared so she loved it). D is upset that OM is there.

I'm starting to wonder if my hope isn't just an unhealthy obsession.

H-36
W-38
Married 14yrs Together 17
2 Children (D12, S15)
9/20/05 - Seperated
4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love
"If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."