Thats good to hear that you will be spending time with your son this week. You need to do more of this. Also look after yourself as well, GALing is about your wife seeing that you are moving on with or without her. It is great to see you spending quality time with your son, as I have with my daughter, but you have to start "going out" for your self occassionally with friends etc.
Early on I pretty much did everything with DD, but somehow that was not really GALing. It was more catching up for lost time and enjoying every moment that I could with her.
I think that in my W's eyes, It appeared that I was still "holding on" by spending all this time with DD and not really "moving on".
I find now that I can still spend heaps of time with DD during the day, and I can still spend time and hang out with friends during a night, mainly on weekends. You can still juggle both. This way your W will see that you are "out and about" without her, and it may make her think a little about what she may be losing.
I also find that my W try's to get little "digs" in whenever she sees me happy, or whenever she sees me going out, her mood changes quite considerably, almost pee'd off like.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
