Sorry, what the heck is KWIM? And actually I think him caving is a win win for both of us. Seems he has more of a moral problem with it than I, I'll take it when I can get it as who the heck knows if I will ever get it again--from anyone for that matter!
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08