You are not alone. I too wonder “Why shouldn't I be out there with another woman?” But your second statement is why.” My kids are being hurt and their trust destroyed. Why not get it from both ends?"” I have no control what my W does. But just because she is going to hurt my son does not make it right for me to also. If it were not for my son 10. I would have given up long ago. As it is now I say to myself ok one more week. My son has emotional problems to top it off. He has constant nightmares of me dieing and him being all alone. I know he will not understand a divorce. As it is if we were to get a D. I would fight to get custody of my son. We are always together as it is now. My W thinks buying him a video game and sitting him in front of the T.V is good parenting’s to feel it is so unfair that My W knows more about our future than I. This is only because I have my son and until he is 18 He is my responsibility. I need to show him how a man is supposed to live, Take responsibility. And above all keep his word (vows) and always be truthful.
It sure sucks to have morals Husband
Last edited by husband; 06/18/0710:24 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
