Well you have to show her that you have stopped talking to other women. If that means throwing away your cell phone, then do it, if that means let her look at the cell bill then do!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
I said "Enough, if you want to leave that's fine. Just don't be adding things that you know are not true. I'm tired."
I don't understand why she would try to add some more things. I already told her I am not going to hold her back any longer. If she wants to leave, she can go. I will no longer try to stop her.
We were supposed to have a session tomorrow, but i told her to cancel it. She wants to go so we can figure out how we are going to handle the kids and such. I told her if we weren't going to work on us, i didn't want to go. She had me me call the counselor and talk to her. I left a message and she hasn't call back.
The counselor just called me and we had a phone session. i am going to go. We'll see where it leads. She had a lot of good things to say that gave me some hope.
KS,
I say Now It's Over because she is bringing up stuff to make herself better about leaving. She knows that is not true.
