"Just keep doing what you are doing. I don't see much else you can do. As far as the separation goes, you can stall, but then that will prove that you really haven't changed. Catch 22."
I feel the same about stalling about the separation. If I don't support it it looks like I am not respecting her feelings and not really doing an LRT a 180 and moving on event though the door is open for reconciliation.
I feel the more I detach the easier it will be live without her. I guess this is part of the point of detachment and GAL to be ready for the time when reconciliation is not going to happen.
The fear is that my W is doing the same thing convincing herself that she does not want to be with me. If you keep telling yourself something you eventually believe it. You can convince yourself of anything if you keep thinking it.
This is so surreal it sucks
P.S. I will look for your posts to see if there is anything I can learn from the similiarities.
