Yay! Thank you for your quick reply. I partly just needed some validation that I'm not just seeing what I want to see. And thanks for the "warnings." I think I need to read DR all over again - all that stuff about how to make the relationship better is more relevant now that I have a relationship to work on.
Me 41 H 42 M 11 years no children Bomb: 10/2006 "I'm better without you than with you." Separated: 12/2006 H moved back: 6/2007