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So her "having" to ask me is understood.


has she yet asked you for one single thing?

sounds like my wife; used to drop hints that she wants things done.. but never actually asks... and so avoided having to be grateful to me for anything, because after all she didnt "ask"... sigh.

difficult to build up positive feelings with a person like that. but sounds like you're doing a good job, at leat \:\) way to go

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle