Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
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Give her more time, no.


I said you, not her. F her.


Do I need more time Jack? You know what I wonder, when you know what the right thing to do is, why should you hesitate to have the balls to do it? I know where my heart lies today, I know what I feel is the right thing to do today.

Do you ever ask yourself that Jack? What do I really want and then just say f^ck it and do what you know your heart really wants you to do? It's an easy thing to tell someone, a hard thing to actually do.

I do love my wife Jack, I also know my limitations on the amount of hurt that I can take from her. It's not over, but I will stop MY pain, because thats the right thing to do.


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09