I don't know really only you can know if your hubby is keeping something from you
Yes well that's half the trouble really. If my H thinks he is going to get grief over something he tends to just lie instead because he cannot bear arguing and confrontation. So I know he is more than capable of keeping things from me. Just this afternoon when we had talked through things a bit he said he didn't even have her number anymore as when his phone went wrong a few weeks ago and he had to put all his numbers back in he didn't put hers in. I asked if he would mind me looking because I really feel I need some physical proof about something he is telling me about this whole thing. He was annoyed that I didn't believe him but let me look. Lo and behold what do I find under just a single initial that isn't even her initial? Bet you've guessed already - yes her number. (he didn't realise it is imprinted in indelible marker on my brain) He claims it must have been on his old phone from before he came home when he was trying to hide it from me so I didn't have a go at him and when he transferred all the numbers he didn't realise what it was. I don't think I believe him. He is adamant about it being the truth and he is adamant that all he has ever done is text her about our M problems and her R problems and that he told her it was out of order when he received the letter and that he didn't feel the same and that it has never been mentioned by her ever since. He says he doesn't hear from her any more appart from the odd joke text.
Oh I don't know I want to believe him so badly. The story of your ex GF's antics has opened my eyes to just how crazy people can be when they feel dumped though and maybe she is crazy. I'm not surprised you didn't want to be friends any longer.
Quote:
"That is ok you can be with her she will never even be half the Woman I am and she will never love you the way I do.. but you seem to think otherwise."
I love this Alimari it is a fantastic thing to say!!
Thank you again for your posts you are really helping me try to make sense of this nightmare.
