Mickey, I always love to read the things you write. What you said is SO TRUE. I think sometimes MLC is confused with selfishness, I do think its possible to have both intertwined, but I think someone has to be pretty selfish or self-centered to do what they do in an MLC, hence that is why some go through this and others do not. I think what you said also rings home, once they recognize the error of thier ways, its easier to just go on rather than admit they did wrong. I think we need to remember that its not in the human nature to admit wrong, its always easier to move on regardless of the outcome. I think that is what you have more often times than not when dealing with an MLCer.
