you should seek your own therapist if you are not confortable with the one he sees. Is the T experienced with couples councelling? that will make a difference. Sometimes a separation is for the best, I suffered greatly while my H was awa¥, but in the process I learned a lot about myself and saw things differently. Remain strong, it's good he is seeing a T. I recommend you read "For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men".
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
