Statistically, the husband always loses touch with his children in a divorce, regardless of who initiated it, if the kids end up living with the mom.

It's natural. You are family with the people you live with.

This has come up in my thoughts. If my wife and I divorce and I remarried someone with children or someone who wanted children, technically my children would always be my kids, but I sense, in some strange way, if I had children in a second marriage, wouldn't my children with the wife I lived with have more of me than my children who lived with my ex-wife and whatever man she ended up with?

Divorce, in my mind, creates fatherless children. Boys who don't know how to be men and girls who will seek out approval from multiple boyfriends because their fathers were absent.

--Theoden

Last edited by theoden; 06/18/07 06:15 PM.