Hey WAW I am the wrong guy to ask. I am at the same place as you. I don't like being in limbo land. I to eater want to work on the M or let it go. But I have my son to think about. And I think I am willing to give it a little longer. I am planning on detaching a little more. Next week is my son’s and Daughters B-day party. We are having a BBQ so it will be another week before I can do anything anyway. I was thinking about doing some major detaching. I will be gone with my son when she gets home from work for the next two weeks. After the second week I may try for a second “Date”. But I hear where you are coming from. I too hate waiting for our S to decide our future. I am lucky that W’s OM lives out of state. I know she thinks I do not trust her. I have NEVER lied to her in 16 years. I was thinking about that today. I was thinking about how many lies she has told me in the last two months. I can tell she is holding back. But I don’t know if she is holding back her good feelings for me or her bad feelings. I don’t know how some people have gone 6-8 months DBing. But I’m going to wait a little longer. I know I have not been much help but at least to can see there are others that are just as confused as you.
Take care Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
