Hi Dad, wow!! It seems totally obvious to me that your WAW wants you to know everything she is doing. She wants a reaction because then she knows she is getting to you. I went dark on H...it was hard because of the kids (D5, D1) but my only conversation would revolve around them. If H got rude and started to spew on the phone I would tell him I would not speak to him when he had that tone with me because I did not deserve it. I would hang up and then I would stick to it...if I needed to communicate I would do so through email. After a few days of this he would call to apologize. This went on for awhile and then I needed to have a talk with him about finances and settlement stuff. I asked him to come over and he told me he would check his schedule...I never said anything about it again...about a week later he told me he had time and when he came over I was very business like. I did cry..not bawling but very teary because I was so sad things had come to this. We went to court and I had the same business like tone. 4 days later he came to me with the revelation that he made a mistake. My advice to you is to NOT be affected by what she is doing. I think it is horrible that she is telling the kids about her myspace and guys she is talking to on the phone. Do not get into this...protect your children from being pawns...My H tried this with the kids and I refused to "play" and it stopped immediately. She sounds like she needs you to keep tabs on her...don't give in...the end result is not going to change. My H lived with OW and her children and totally neglected his own...over time he came around. I don't know how much stock I put into MLC..I can tell you my H was in some kind of crisis mode and needed to find himself before he could/can become my H again. I hope this helps!
