Andyv,

Good for you on your "dating" scene. I know you're still hopeful on the M, but I hear what you're saying about feeling appreciated and respected. We get none of that at home and our W's have made it clear not to expect any so why not get the validation elsewhere(minus the sex for now)?

I still would feel a little guilty going out on dates when I'm not even legally separated from my spouse, but it doesn't seem fair that they have all the fun, none of the guilt. Keep stocking chocolates around the house, I'm sure your W will eat them all. Take care.


ME: 39 ring on
wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC
son:17,11
dtr:9
mar:17yr
Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old.
DBing 5-19-07
My story on the link below.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470