have you signed up for a DB coach yet? I believe it was what saved my marriage. I don't believe in total darkness. I backfired on me. What my coach said to me stuck with me and I used it a lot...give a compliment and RUN. It really works. Just before she gets into her car, say I always admired how you always keep your car clean, then turn around and close the door, as an example. Try flirting with her without her realizing what you are doing, then run!


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14