I need help. I know my wife is dead set on divorce and I would like to control the situation so I have the advantage. I am considering serving her this week with a legal separation with no intent of divorce. I am hoping she comes to her senses and realizes the mistake she's made running to OM.
This could backfire on me and expedite the divorce process though. At this point I am pretty sick and tired of her behavior and ready to move on or work on reconciliation. GAL has given me back my dignity and I don't believe I need to put up w/ her Sh$t, especially when we have kids. I would really like to either work on the M or move on. Since she doesn't want to work on the M only work on D, I am ready to oblige.
I also don't want to be financially responsible for escapades w/ OM as we are both still liable until one of us is served. What do you guys think? I am not rich by any means and don't want money that should be used for my kids going to the OM. I value your opinions and I know your sitches are similar to mine. Help me guys!!!
By the way Husband, did that object in the sky you mentioned the other day have any of our Spouses??
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470
