Letting Go of My WAW

[Nomopo]

She's not willing to move to Texas, come hell or highwater.

Unless I missed something, I'm not sure we know this yet.

You can tell her, "I want to move to Texas, and this is my time frame. It may not match yours, but if we cooperate, I think we can both get what we are looking for, regardless of the outcome of our relationship."

Lay boundaries. Remain strong and stable. Keep the door open.

I agree boundaries are entirely appropriate at times, but I'm nots sure this is about boundaries. She is deciding what she wants to do, and what boundary can you set about her moving to Texas. Can you really stop her? What line would you draw? You can't really say, "no, you have to go ahead and move to Austin unless you commit to ending all contact with OM." How are you going to enforce that?

Nomopo