only thing i'd remind you of.. is that she doesnt ask, and you know that already. so saying "all she has to do is ask", isnt going anywhere.
There's shades of offering. If you REALLY want to do some of those things, maybe after letting the offer sink in for a while, pick one that is easy and quick, and say to her some time, "i'd LIKE to do [so-and-so] for you today; i happen to be at the hardware store, so it would be easy for me to grab [xxxx] and come by and fix [yyy]"
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
