Yes, we do have Father's Day here, and the original plan was for just the men to go out, but my H didn't get in touch with his F until a couple of hours before he wanted them all to go out to dinner, and my FIL had already gotten dinner for himself and my MIL. So, my H and S went out by themselves. My H commented that he went out with our S and me on Mother's Day, because he was the one with the money. I don't think he altogether understands the idea of family togetherness sometimes. I see the need for the men to get together without the women of the family at times, and they all had a nice weekend out of town a few weeks ago. Then I shocked them all by coming along to the family reunion a couple of weeks ago. My H seems to be puzzled by the new me, yet I think he likes it. I didn't used to go to the reunion, after the first year we were together, but I am doing stuff I haven't in years.
Yesterday, when he got home from his extra job, we were telling him about some changes they made to the interior of our church, and he was saying it was stupid. I didn't care too much for the changes, but I didn't think they were stupid, but I kept my mouth shut, which I am telling you, I am really learning to do alot. I think it is probably a pleasant surprise for my H that I don't jump at him about his opinions all the time anymore.
It is so weird, but my emotions are all over the place at times. One day I will start crying over the whole stinkin' mess, and the next, I am thinking well, okay if he leaves in a few years, like he was planning, then I will be okay, and maybe I could find a nice decent faithful man one day. Then the next day, it's something else. I guess I am also on the roller coaster.
Oh well, at least today seems to be a good day so far, so I will be happy today. I hope everyone else can find something to be happy about today, too.
