I am feeling a little better now, but let me explain. I will try not to make it long.
A week ago Friday, H, myself, and the kids went to a friend of h's house for a barbecue. His friend's cousin and other friend's were there. His cousin was there w/out his wife. Everyone was having a nice time. Late into the evening and now not wanting to drive since we were all drinking, my h went in and laid down. His friend's cousin had started making passes at me. Everyone was sleeping and I kept fielding them and nothing really happened. He claimed my h's friend sensed there was a connection between us so he was sleeping in the chair in the living room where I we where on separate to couchs. I know I was a quick acting after drinking, as I should have been it was like I was clueless. My oldest son was up and kept moving around, which also helped, but even though I feel like I did something wrong.All last weekend I kept thinking H's friend would call and say something, then I thought no cause it was his cousin. I thought I should tell h, but why open a can of worms.I know I did alot of talking(alcohol) and am hoping nothing comes back to haunt me. I just don't want to ruin my h's relationship with his friend either. I don't even know if he really thought anything like his cousin said, if so you think he would have said something to me or at least his cousin about leaving it alone.
Every day that went by I was feeling maybe it wasn't such a big deal and if h said something I would just tell him it was the alcohol and nothing happened, I didn't tell him cause it was his friend's cousin and hope it would blow over. Now 2 days ago h was drinking at our friend's house and on the way home he was rambling and in the middle of me talking he said,"You like *'s cousin." I just ignored him and kept on what I was saying. Now I don't know if he suspects something or he was just fishing.I know he hasn't talked to the guy since his cell phone updates the time and date and his number still shows last contact before we went that night.
I think I should just leave it pass and hope it will never come up again. Any thoughts?
