My H returned from out of the country last nite. Saturday I got online and he quickly got on the Im and asked to talk w/ the girsl. After they went back and forth w/ ILY's then I quickly tried to get of the IM w/ him by saying that I will say good bye b/c i wa sure he did not want to talk w/ me. He asked why not? I reminded him of my lst nasty email I sent to hsi work email and told him I had (sat morning) sent an apology one. H said his work server is down right now so he could not read it. H said he does not think I've changed b/c of that of how I say things & then try to take it back. I reminded him of of I am hurting and that changes don't happen overnite & God was still working w/ me. Nevertheless he was ok now. He asked me who I was palnningto goon a"honeymoon" w/. I reminded him of what he has said before that he dos not care & so why ask me? He said I keep telling him things like that or "playing" w/him that he is starting to believe me an if that was the case that iI have someone then he is ready to sell the house ,move on and be able to buy himself another place on his own. I said there is no other person. I wish I had someone to love me and spen time w/ me though like he has. He asked if I was really going outof town & said yes I did request the two days off & must of gorgotten he wanted the girls that same weekend b/c he asked where the girsl were gong, I said w/you? After that we must of chatted for at least an hour or so. I can tell he has been doing some thinking while he was away (just as I hoped for).
I dont' how we got on the topic (maybe he was horny),but he started a topic(fantasy) that I just played along w/ for a little bit. Until he touched on the sex topic of how I wouldn't do certain things to him. I should of told him I wasn't a mind reader b/c he said I should of known this is what he likes. So just as I thought I think (know) Ow is competley satisfying his sexual needs the way I wouldn't.
Question? I thought my H might be "whipped", but just how many of these affairs last on just sexually satisfaction? It makes me wonder since my H did get me "hooked" enough to marry? He said I wasn't the kind of woman to do those things. I reminded him that if he were to meet my needs -QT & spend time w/ me that I was willing and able to do ANYTHING for him. H never wanted to take me anywhere. I don't know if he gets the concept of compromise yet. He admitted it got too boring. I told him but plenty fo marriages do thing to keep it interesting. we wer reminsicing for a bit. I pointed a few times when we were abl r tobe "spontaneous" w/ only one child, like the time we had to call the paramedics (i will leave that to your imagination)! He said yes to it all. Months ago whenver I pointed good times he wan't able to remember them, so baby stpes?
