Almost 8 months and counting

[Yoyowife]

Ali and Theo,
Thanks for your replies. Ali, my girls are 16 and 19. So basically he is only legally bound to take care of the youngest. I'm so sorry for what your boys went through. It is so hard to believe that a parent could stand by and let another person treat their children like that.

I too have seen how once the new wife gets their claws in them how they forget about their own children. My made this comment to him once before I even knew he was involved with secretary. I said that if he found someone they wouldn't want him supporting the girls.

Theo, our house is paid for. My car is paid for. So if I was able to get house I would just basically have to pay utilities and repairs. It's funny that you mentioned bitterness, I pray to God everyday to not let bitterness overtake my life. I'm afraid the divorce could definitely get ugly. I'm not trying to scam him, I just want to divide everything fairly and equally, but he doesn't want me touching business. His business makes more in one year than what my house and car are worth. I just want to know that I can take care of my girls and provide them with an education. He said if I would let him keep all of the business he would pay for all of their college. I'm sorry I just don't trust him. I have no doubt that he loves the girls, but women change men.