Husband, Would you consider an individual counselor? I've been seeing one for about two years. It helps to have someone get to know you on an intimate level. It helps to know someone is rooting for you, and cares about your well-being. I only go monthly at this point, but I find it essential.
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"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."