I think you are too nice and teach your W to take advantage of that.
I think you are 100% right. I'm trying to stop but it goes against my nature and it's a hard habit to break. I'm always trying to do for her...always have. I think I've done it so much that she doesn't even recognizes what I do anymore and she certainly doesn't seem to appreciate it.
Working on it F21...working on it.
Swashy, You sound a lot like me. I am sort of in the same dilema. I always try to do things for people but you know sometimes it is nice to be appreciated for it. I have always done what I could for my for my wife or suprised her with little things. The appreciation for those things definitly decreased with time though. I still do things but I wonder if I should continue. If you read my other posts, I mentioned that she said that she really doesn't like me getting her things or doing stuff for her because it makes her feel guilty. It is just my nature. If I go buy a cup of coffee here at work I will usually get someone else a cup too. That kind of thing! Oh well...your not alone.
