Sorry to see you back here. It is hard to imagine the pain that you have been through, but it seems that you are trying to recognize that you can't fix her. Why do I say trying? Here's why.
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So smart thing for me to do is finally cut the strings and let her go right ? When she left I told her not to call us to rescue her again. That if she needed a place to live she was always welcome here as long as I was still single.
You aren't there yet. The best thing the White Knights can do is to let her fend for herself next time. If she has a backup, she will always use, or should I say abuse, it.
Your sadness comes through. You haven't walked away from her. She walked away from you. The smart thing for you is to finally cut those strings and let her go as you questioned. You questioned because you are not ready.
Good luck. Keep moving forward with your life. Your life is about you and your children. She chose to be your ex. Your ex. Keep that in mind.
