ERC & Hope I too am someone who likes to deal with problems head on. Unlike my daughter for instance who thinks if you don’t deal with it will go away. That is why I am having such a problem DBing. I can’t understand how you can deal with a relationship with out talking about it. I can’t figure how you are supposed to deal with OM with out talking about it. My W shows no emotions. She is not mean. But she is like a step ford with without the sex. Now If I want to keep my son safe from the divorce I could just go along with it. But I need to have a companion too. I could only be a good father for so long if I don’t deal with my own issues. I know sooner or later things that are bothering me are going to be transferred to my son even though he is completely innocent. Do you know what I am trying to say? Kind of like I could be upset because of something My W did and turn around and yell at my son. (This is just an example. This has not happened yet)
Anyway I do not understand not dealing with an issue without addressing it.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
