my wifes father passed away in Feb of 2006 she still has issues with that on top of her EA imediatly following. But yesterday she was over the top. I woke up and ate breakfast with my girls who told me happy Fathers day, I waited for a while as wife was being very quiet and seemed mad at me. I asked her what the plans were for the day and got a very abrupt answer about going to the cemetery (her fathers grave site). I asked her why she hadn't said "happy Fathers day" to me and why the distance and she told me "because YOUR NOT MY FATHER". man that hurt, I have always done something extra for her on mothers day with a card from the girls and one from me. I never expected this.