I doubt she is worried about any OW, she is the one that keeps telling me to "go find someone else" and over the years has said "go get a girlfriend" so I'd stop chasing her around the house trying to get some physical affection from her (my LL) and she has also said "you need to go find yourself a nice Christian wife." Last time she said that I needed to date someone else, I told her that telling me that was extremely disrespectful and I didn't want to hear it again. The last time she told me to "get a life" I yelled at her that she doesn't need to tell me what to do, she isn't my mother!" I think that should get the point across, 'eh!
She is a controlling person and she thinks she is my mother. The problem all the puppet strings have been cut so her pulling them doesn't work anymore... Plus I already have a mother and don't need another one, not sure she knows how to be anything else, guess we'll find out. She has changed from "telling" me things to "asking" me things which is a nice change.
I got your email, I'll reply when I know more tomorrow. The new nick is great!
