Nicola.. I just needed to come here and see how you are doing. I love your posts. I always learn so much from them. Interesting that you mention your H might be cheating on his new gf. I was wondering this past week whether a cheating spouse can ever stop cheating. I believe they can if they take serious look at who they are and what causes it, rather then blaming the other person on why they are cheating. Anyways, it will be interesting to see what comes out of that.

[quote]I like making decisions w/o consulting anyone else.[\quote]

I agree with you completely here. I hired an artist to do a huge wall mural on my d's wall. It is wonderful. My sons room is getting done in two weeks. Life is good.

Glad to see you are happy and content.

Neli


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Both: 33
Together 13y; Married 8y
Kids: DD8 and DS5
Separated: 08/31/06
D Filed: 2/21/07

my current story