I think we have all wondered at one point or another whether by not chasing/pursuing and being so chipper our WAS might say we're ok, and we've moved. I think the answer is no, assuming we told them before we wanted to work on the M (and almost all of us did, multiple times). Plus, even if they thought maybe we had moved on, if they have a change of heart, or a seed of doubt, it seems unlikely they wouldn't follow it or act on it just because they think now we have moved on. Just my cents.
Nomopo
PS - One last thought. I guess the risk of the spouse thinking that is promounced when LBS's are DARK. Another reason I think going dark is overrated and probably used too early. Like Michele said in DR, start with the simpler, less radical marriage saving-strategies first. Why use dynamite to open a door when a different key might work?
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
