Originally Posted By: swashy
Nope. No "I miss you's" NDDT. All that will do is pressure her and if she is not missing you (sorry)...it will just remind her of that and make her question why...which does you no good. Seriously, don't do it. She knows what you want - you don't need to keep bringing it up. No need to keep repeating the message.

I think you simply need to focus on being happy, confident and strong right now. Letting her know that you miss her is being weak. I'm starting to really buy into this whole Alpha Male thing. That doesn't mean being a jerk...just confident and strong. Read some of Frank Ds stuff.


That just reinforces the facts all over this board that what you are doing...(by that I mean not saying how you truly feel but rather acting as-if), is the hardest thing to do....

Swashy is right, she knows how you feel, so just carry your head high and don't let what her actions do dictate yours. Let her see, hear and observe your actions that you arent letting this sitch get you down and depressed, because they can sense that.

God Bless

Chevelle