Today was S11's b-day party. Sometimes a fight time. But it was good. I went with the flow. A few things bothered me but I kept to myself. Had let H plan the whole thing, which is always a wrong move. Everything was last minute and no invites so only our neighbor's boys came, no other friends. But they had a good time anyway. F-in law came over and we had a big meal with some relatives and friends.
On a side note, I wore a halter top and H was all over me. He started with the same thing he said in the past, that it wasn't right. I told him anytime. I have no problems with that. Win-Win I figure. This gives me hope that at some point he will cave as he did previously. He said that that part of our relationship was never a problem. I said no, only my personality is. He commented that we don't get along which I totally disagree with. He may not think he gets along with me but I say I get along with him. Guess everything is how you look at it. Half empty or half full.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08