My goodness. I just read your posts - it too drives me crazy that our spouses say they care so much about their families. What BS! I can't tell you how often I say "well at least when I'm not with my kids, they're with their dad. He's a good dad" and people reply "no, he's not a good dad. A good dad wouldn't have done this and wouldn't keep it up!!! He's maybe good with his kids, that's it." (we have a S3 and S2mos)

So its Fathers Day today and I wonder what he thinks of what he's done. I wonder what the OW who wants kids one day (she's only 21, he's 35 with two kids) thinks - probably nothing because right now they can only think of themselves.

This is just s----. There are really days I'm ready to throw in the towel and even stop praying for him to "wake up". I just don't understand how someone could do this.

Well, sorry to rant. I need to do it somewhere...or I'll do it to him and I've already done that way too much \:\(

So, Emtn...how are things going? I can't remember if it was you whose wife sort of woke up or is that saddadinkc? I hope its both!!

God bless you and let me know how you're doing...