Hey, IP, I guess things are going pretty well here. H has been acting nice for the most part. Today he and S have gone out to his father's and then off to dinner together. I am not invited, but oh well, I am going to fix myself a nice steak and salad.

I am wondering if the niceness that H is displaying is just the eye of the storm, where it's supposedly calm, or if it's because he has pretty much withdrawn from ow, and is no longer hung up on her, and therefore hasn't got that on his mind so much.

He is still coming home on time, and when the sergeant lets them off a little early, he is coming home, and not going "elsewhere".
He isn't doing anything actively nice for me, but he is at least not being very mean very often.

He is talking to me alot about religion, and I am having to have answers at the ready for why I believe what I believe, which is not always easy, because he gets annoyed easily. So, I do the best I can, and we will have discussions that can last for an hour or more.

I wonder why he is always bringing things like this up. Maybe he is struggling inside to find out why he has done the things he has done and how to get things right again.

L