Interesting that she is leaving you for a man that cares about his children so much that he is going to leave them and be a weekend dad. And she accepts that because does she honestly want 4 kids 2 weeks a month?
I agree she is leaving me for a man that does not value family at all. He walked out on his W and kids months ago to get some space. He is a real family man isn't he. I honestly never thought about my W having all 4 kids like that... She will go crazy.... Our two girls drive her to the point where she needs a break... I would regularly get home from work to have my W inform me that she was having a bad day with the girls and needed a break.... How is it going to be with 4 kids??
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Your wife keeps bringing up how much she misses the kids, wants the best for the kids, etc, because she is struggling with the fact that her own selfishness is going to break the family up and hurt them. Granted that voice is really quiet right now, and the devil on her shoulder is screaming at the top of his lungs.
I think your right ever since I pulled back and her family has pulled back from telling her that her actions and choices are wrong, she doesn't seem to be on the happy train anymore. I do hope in the end the voice reason wins out and she truely gives our family a chance.
