1. I am convinced that this is part of the grieving process of someone in MLC.
2. It also may relate to the fact that her plans are not working out. In other words, you are (re)discovering your Self and therefore are a beacon of steady, positive energy in the midst of her self-centered, swirling chaos.
3. She is completely conflicted by the choices she has made and still has to make.
That said, don't over-analyze the sitch, just stay lovingly detached!
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