Are you and your husband working on things? My sitch is somewhat similar and I'm going to use you as hope!
My H is having affair and he's very involved with OW - she's moving here soon for school. I think that could be the death of my M or as some tell me, the start of the demise of their R. Up until now, its been mostly EA (from Oct to Feb) then seeing one another sometimes on weekends. No reality yet.
I'm hopeful it won't take long. But I know there are no guarantees. I think we all struggle with the idea that they are off having the times of their lives all the time, just so in love. We wouldn't fathom leaving our spouses for OP ever, so we assume it must be fairy tale like for someone to do it to us.
Know someone who had affair - they say it starts off like that and does become same old stuff, just different person. For him though, it took 8 months ! UGH -seems a lifetime away!
I really hope so. Until then, I'm trying to GAL and do 180 and work on myself. Decide if I want to be in this M any longer.
Has anyone ever dated while WS is having his/her affair? Dare I even ask?
