Your wife is in la-la land. How in the h*ll can she consider independent living on $335 a month? Of course, you could do what my 2bx did and quit your job, leave the state and leave her with ALL the child rearing expenses and debt. But. of course, you are not that kind of man. Give yourself a big pat on the back. I'll give you a ((hug)) and wish you a very Happy Father's Day because you deserve it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver