Stillme's Chapters Continue Some More

[stillme]

Hi, Sunny & Kat! Boy, everyone's a night owl tonight! I'm already for bed - even AFTER my 8pm nap! So, after this I'm gone til morning. . .

You're not being hostile, or dropping your PMA (as shown by the oops incident at the gym), just changing things a bit, so it's more of an untra-light really.

LOVE this - Low-Cal Dim, huh? ; Less fights, fewer confrontations.

I was told years ago by a therapist friend, that negative actions require energy, just as people say/do things in anger, etc., and your H filing would require a push of some sort.

Yeah, makes perfect sense. I've had MONTHS to go to a L, but chose the wk(s) of H's spewing to actually make the appt(Thank goodness I was calmer when the day came.) H has had LOTS of 'push-able' times in the past 6 mo., but has not done it yet. There's got to be a reason Why - whether he acknowledges it, or acknowledges the true reson, or not.

I'm following your thread, too; will check in tomorrow, 'kay?
Night. (is there a big yawn-y smiley face?) j.