Ok everyone I get home the W is a little distant. But I keep the Positive attitude. First thing I did was take my son’s and my dirty clothes and put them I the washer. My W tells me she is making her fabulous spaghetti for dinner and is going to have her mom come over to look at the pictures of our vacation. During dinner there was nice conversation. (Her mom loves me she has no idea what her daughter has done). Let me go back in time a little. Before I found out about the OM. My W was not happy. She was complaining about this and that. One thing she said was the kitchen needed painting. So I painted the entire kitchen and hall way. We had our wedding pictures in the hall way. She told me to just leave those pictures down because she wanted to do something different there. Well after everything was painted I went one step further and tiled around the sink and stove. This was about 3 months ago and the wall was still blank when I left. Tonight I turned down the hall and noticed our wedding pictures are back up. She also hung up her collage diploma that had never found a home. (She was out of work for 3 years so went back to school while I supported the family. Anyway the pictures are back up. Also I asked her if she wanted to go with me to put flowers on our father’s graves. (We have never done this) she said sure. I complimented her on the pictures said the wall looks great. Later my daughter called and needed a ride home. I just drove over 300 miles but my wife wanted me to go pick her up. Ok so On the way home I asked my daughter if mom seemed annoyed with the gifts. She said no not annoyed she told me that “Dad was probably checking up on me” My daughter then said I don’t know why she would say that. I slipped and said quietly she has her reasons. W left to take her Mom home in a good mood. I check in tomorrow to give ya all an update.
Well I guess I’m back in the game
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know