You are wise to seek counseling at least for yourself. It is a debate whether counseling can actually save marriages, but you may want to go alone so at least you can handle this huge transition. There may be reasons why he acts so angry, but you need to feel safe. That is the most important thing. What did you mean by out of control? Is he punching a wall or using foul language. My husband would get enraged and flip me off. He would ocassionally use the F word or B word. It was actually very uncharacteristic of him. What about your husband was out of control?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
