Give the two of you some time - you need some time apart to mellow out. Continue counseling if he'll go, and if the C is helong restore your marriage. If they're not, find someone else. make SURE they're team oriented, that they're not playing you against each other, that they're solution oriented and don't just let you sit there and tell your "stories" ad nauseum.
Be cool with your husband, no pressuring, just let him figure his stuff out, and you do the same. If you love each other, you'll figure things out with time... Good luck!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
