My wife is falling in love with OM - II

[andyv]

Hey NS4U,

You have just worked out the secret incredient in managing your sitch.

As I have mentioned before in earlier posts, the key is to let her go, detach and go dark. I have read so many sitches, success stories, books etc on what we are going through, and in each case once the LBS really does let go and GAL's, the tide does turn.

I have been doing this for a few weeks now, and with the exception of W this morning bringing up "pick up and drop offs of DD" in the D papers she is preparing, she has not brought up anything else.

This is after I was dolled up last night, going out on a date (I did not disclose anything to her, but I think she definatley would have worked it out). She seems to try to throw a spanner in the works every time I look like I am having fun and moving on.

But I have let everything she has said or done slide, and do not give it a second thought (for my own PMA). I too have moments when I wish things were different, and other times I wish she would just leave with OM and give me peace. It is normal to go through these emotions.